BLESSING NYAHUMA ANOTHER family has entered the news in the most terrible way possible. Photographs of an ordinary household have become evidence of extraordinary horror. One of my favourite Swahili sayings is, “Mpenzi ni adui” the lover is the enemy. Not because love is evil, but because intimacy gives another person unusual access to us….

Ndodana Tshuma, left, killed his wife Nothabo Zandile Tshuma and her daughters, Nala and Natalie.
